Is it normal for a buyer to ask me to beat a competing offer without ever proving that offer exists?
Short answer: This happens often enough in negotiation generally, not just scrap sales, but it puts you in a difficult position since you can't actually verify whether the competing offer is real or exaggerated — a reasonable response is to ask for at least some detail about the competing offer, and to be comfortable simply stating your own honest bottom line rather than chasing an unverifiable number.
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List Free →Why this negotiation tactic is common
Referencing a competing offer, real or not, is a standard negotiation tactic used across many types of sales, since it creates pressure to match or beat a number without the other party needing to actually prove anything — this isn’t unique to scrap metal, and being asked this doesn’t necessarily mean anything is unusual about the buyer.
Why you can’t always verify it
Unless the buyer is willing to share specifics — who made the competing offer, exact terms — you’re generally being asked to trust an unverifiable claim, which is a reasonable thing to be cautious about rather than simply accepting at face value.
A reasonable way to handle this
You can ask politely for some detail about the competing offer to assess its credibility, or simply state your own honest price expectation based on your own research rather than chasing a number you can’t verify — a buyer genuinely interested in your material should still engage with a reasonable, well-supported price from you.
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